A photo of a man reading a neon sign on a tree that says โHealing also means taking responsibility for the role you play in your own sufferingโ.
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the rudest most helpful thing anyone ever said to me is โwhy do you keep hurting your own feelings long after [the person who once hurt you] probably forgot about itโ like literally just dear god youโve split me open so neatly my entire soul is just flopping around on the ground between us now but thank you
Just fyi if youโre autistic/adhd and struggle specifically with this sort of thing, please know what what might be happening is something called perseveration, which is a common neurodivergent behavior that can include, among other things, revisiting emotions repeatedly and being unable to break loose from processing or managing stressful events.
Donโt keep hurting your own feelings. But donโt feel bad if you get stuck there, either. Something else could be going on.
hi landlady, have you ever thought of making mr j a little frilly collar like this? I think it would be very dashing and some cats donโt seem to mindโฆ
Iโm loving this new trend of people going to zoos and participating in animal enrichment. We use to observe large exotic animals for our entertainment, but the fact is that we are now trying to make ourselves equally as entertaining for them. Itโs interactive, completely parpicipatory and I would argue that eventually someoneโs gonna come up with something new enough that it expland ethologists understanding about how some animals think, problem solve, communicate and feel and I think its fantastic.
Human: play?
Aquatic creature from an entirely different branch of the animal tree: play!
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“๐น๐๐๐ข ๐ธ๐น, ๐ท๐ฟ๐ท๐บ
๐๐๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐พ๐ ๐ต๐๐๐๐ฃ ๐บ๐๐๐๐, ๐ท๐ฟ๐ท๐บ-๐ท๐ฟ๐ธ๐น
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